Created as a Love Proof

Life is not a Competition, don’t run the course of life living in the shadow of others. You were not created to prove that you are better than others, you were not created to prove that you are richer, you were not created to prove that you are cooler.
No you were created as a prove of love, a prove of grace. A prove that love is enough to set the world straight, a prove that there’s a living truth in you that can heal the world. Stop trying to prove a point, stop trying desperately to get the attention of people, stop trying so hard to prove that it’s all about you. Rather live as the evidence of what God has made you. A standard proof of Love. Stop selling yourself short.

The daughters of Zelophehad

Regardless of the storm or whatever you may be experiencing, its time for you to get up, stop complaining. like the Zelophehad sisters, go and talk to the one who matters. It won't be long, it won't be a waste, in time you would realise that all you needed was to find strength and courage in the right place.
don't waste time crying and complaining, it wont change ANYTHING.

Youthful Yoke 2: Outward strength

Outward Strength

•      I John 2:14 - I have written unto you, fathers, because ye have known him that is from the beginning. I have written unto you, young men, because ye are strong, and the word of God abideth in you, and ye have overcome the wicked one.

Friend you are strong enough to take it,

Strong enough to make it,

Strong enough to find it,

Strong enough to lead it,

Strong enough to handle it.

Strong enough to pull through it.

THERE IS STRENGTH TO DO GOOD:

What bed will you lay on when you’re older? Are you making your bed now? What good foundation are you laying? Now there is strength to do all the good in the world. Strength to refrain from anger, strength to keep quiet even when you can say a lot, strength to help another in time of need, strength to flee youthful lust and pleasures. Where is your strength for good deeds?

THERE IS STRENGTH IN ADVERSITY:

If you fail in times of adversity, your strength is small. How do you stand in adversity? Troubles will come, mountains will roar, terror will gather, but now, this time, there is strength to cope in the face of adversity. How big is your strength?

THERE IS ENERGY FOR WORK AND ACTION:

When you are young, you have so much energy to go around. Energy to lift. Energy to fight, energy t run, energy to lead.

It is easier to do all the work now, easier to use your legs to get to the place of your dreams now, it is easier to run faster and get there earlier in the days of your youth.

What are you spending your energy on? What are you loosing strength on? What is taking the cost of you time?

Now is the right time to take stock of your energy and time. Has it been worth it?

PASSION IS WILD AND STRONG

Now there’s so much passion in you. So much excitement, you can feel the passion from the touch of someone, you can experience the passion when you pursue a dream relentlessly.

The idea you possess cannot go beyond the level of passion you have for it. How passionate you are about something always determines how long it lasts.

So if not now when, now is te time to allow your passion for good drive your legs to fulfilling purpose.

STRENGTH TO BE AN EXAMPLE:

Example in truth, example in conduct. There’s a responsibility divinely placed, to lead people to see the light and to help them be a better version. What kind of example have you been? Who have you been leading?

THERE IS A CORRESPONDING STRENGTH FOR EVERY DESIRE AND DREAM

Truthfully it’s never too late to fulfil a dream but we will all agree that the earlier the better. Because sometimes dreams gathered at old age may not be fully attained due to frailness and weakness. But now for every dream, there is a corresponding strength. For every desire, there is a strong mind putting forces together to make it work.

THERE IS STRENGTH TO LEAD THE CAUSE FOR A CHANGE OR PATTERN:

The strength of the youth is great enough to channel a cause and see it through. Many youths undermine the glory in their strength. A strength that can achieve great things has been divinely placed in the body. So now you can get up and say this is what I stand for and mobilise people to stand with you for the same purpose. Accepting the glory of your strength is accepting the divine leadership position that God has placed upon you.

To be continued……

Yoke of the Youth

Lamentations 3:27 It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth.

I am tired, I don’t know what to do, I am not moving forward, I’m tired of life, I just want to give up’ Tolu cried as the words escaped her lips.

Tolu graduated with a second class upper and has been searching for a job since she left the university in 2010. When Tolu was a young child, her parents divorced, her father left the house and she was raised by her mother. Many times Tolu thought about the possibility of her father coming back home but that dream never came to reality. The relationship with her father was strained, years of loneliness and vain hope. Many times Tolu wanted to leave the house as she thought her mother was too hard on her, she did the chores and had to take care of a lot of things, her mum refused getting any help so majority of the work fell on her.

All Tolu spent her teen years doing was trying to get out of the chores, she hated them so much she would rather live elsewhere. As she grew older, she thought any opportunity to take responsibility was an invitation to suffering. The responsibilities that would shape her life and build her response to circumstances were the very things she ran away from. And years down the line she still hasn’t learnt to take responsibilities. As she sat down in her room thinking of what to do with her life, she blamed everyone and everything else except for herself. She blamed the government, she blamed her not so rich mother who couldn’t get her a connection, she blamed her friends who were already working for not paying her attention, and she counted all their blessings as luck. She made the government’s irresponsibility her own responsibility, she made the system’s failure her own failure and she left herself with no genuine sense of responsibility.

She forgot that she was responsible for her life, her joy, her peace and everything that affected it. In making other unnecessary things her responsibility she forgot to be responsible for her own self.

Somehow majority of youths have this similar problem. They go on thinking everything is a right, they are never responsible for anything in life because they think they are not the architect. Someone or something just has to be responsible for every box of dream left unachieved. But here is the truth, the moment you know your left from right, you begin the build the blocks on which your life will eventually stand. Those are the very things that shape our lives and there we begin to learn what is important

Hello Youth! There is nothing as wonderful as being young, but for every phase there’s a yoke, a burden. The question then is are you responsible enough? Responsibility is your response to every situation. How do you respond or take charge of every given moment and opportunity. No matter how terrible things have been, it is of God’s mercy that they are not worse. But what exactly should you be responsible for, what yoke would you bear that will bring meaning to the life you are living.

A yoke of responsibility (WORK)

It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth. The Bible reminds us of what the world gives: trials, tribulations, but with that knowledge comes a revelation that Christ has already overcome the world. Hence we are to walk in that victory and doing that means doing the exact things Jesus did to overcome. Walking the paths of Jesus and again reliving the choices that He made for us. When we realise the truth in Gods words, we begin to attach a lesser meaning to life and channel efforts to what is truly important. Knowing that joy is not found in people or things but in the purpose for which we were truly created. We must then be responsible enough to take our lives, structure it and own it regardless of what we have been through. Responsible enough to bear the yoke of troubles, rebukes, fatherly chastisements, obedience. Take responsibility and not whine, when you are tempted to pity yourself, ask yourself ‘What have I done’.

When something happens, think of a response, what are you responsible for in that situation? Your job is not to point fingers, your job is raise your fingers for service.

A yoke of optimism and excitement for the future

Do you have any hope left? Life is not just about sitting down, without hope or aspiration. Your Youth is for finding. It is a time to be excited about the thoughts and prospects of the future. Knowing what joy you will behold in future. It is a time to look beyond today and into the eyes of the future.

What matters is not how much you have acquired today because possessions are not forever, what matters is not even in the abundance of what you have. It is all about what you are achieving now with those resources and what they can achieve in future.

Friends if truly you are thinking about the future, you will know that some battles are not worth fighting and you will be excited for everything that is coming to you and passing through you.

A yoke of enjoyment

Put your neck down and wear the crown of enjoyment. Enjoyment is not in wasting or marrying, enjoyment is in knowing all of life’s purpose and living in it. Many times we are deprived of enjoying because we focus too much on the problems that abound. Why not accept that those trials are a part of it all, working out our patience, trying out our faith. When we accept the knowledge of this reality, we don’t spend our years constantly fighting the troubles away, we live through them and rise above them, we get better and we embrace our lives, rather than spending the years fighting and losing the true meaning of living.

A yoke of creation and control

Isn’t there a burden of creation rising in you? You have hands, what have they done? You have eyes, what have you seen? Where have your legs gone? What are you doing with your body, it is not a fashion item.

Create ideas, dreams and vision, then take control. Control over self and pleasure. Control that lust, that wrong appetite, the raging passion because those very things are what alters creation. If you don’t take control then the creature becomes control and is put under. How can a man function right when he no longer has control over what he wants, needs or craves. The yoke is to gain control and not lose it. The fact that you are young and free does not mean that every craving must be satisfied.

A yoke of Good

There’s an increase in crime and evil. Daily we behold the danger with our eyes. We complain so much of evil yet we contribute to it in our own little way. What good have you done? Who have you said a kind word to? Who have you helped in a stranded state? There is evil but even stronger is the burden to do the good required to erase the bad.

Rather than complain about evil all day, focus on bearing the burden of doing good.

A yoke of Humility, Obedience and Service.

What do we have that we have not received? We live like we brought it all as we raced out of our mother’s wombs. We hold on so tight to things that are not ours to begin with. We have our harms so tightly wrapped around our possessions that we forget to wrap it around another human, we have our mouths running others down that we forget to say a kind word.

There’s so much rebellion and always it has to be our way or nothing. Condemning and crucifying others yet forgetting the wrong we have held on to for so long.

What yoke are you bearing?

All these may seem very heavy but now is the time to bear them. Now is the time to know that life does not consist only of money, fame and pleasures. Life is creating your own joy from a source as supernatural as the one that gave you breathe then spread that joy to every area of your life, such that you receive all that happens as a part of a process and you take full responsibility for making things better as life goes on.

Your joy is your responsibility, God has given grace to shoulder the responsibility but are you walking under grace?

You can’t be tired when you haven’t even started fulfilling purpose. Because when you find the essence, everyday becomes another opportunity to achieve more.

To be continued

Any Good?

What good have you given?
What good have you rewarded?
What good have you done?
Oh pilgrim

What help have you rendered?
What help have you offered?
What help have you given?
Oh pilgrim

Every good done is unto God
Every help rendered is unto the maker
Every hope given is for a soul
oh Pilgrim

You complain so much about all that is going wrong,
But no good flows from you to correct the wrong.
There's so much fighting and abusing,
Have you been a peace maker?
There's so much hatred,
Have you shown love to one person?
There's so much much poverty,
Have you blessed someone from the little you have?
There's so much hunger,
Have you shared a meal?
There's so much discouragement,
Have you given hope?
There's so much bad news,
Have you shared a good one?
There's so much moral decadence,
Have you tried being good?

Oh Pilgrim
You are created for this very purpose,
to do good
There is so much in you,
So much good the maker has placed in you.

Why don't you start by giving that little,
Why don't you start by obeying that instruction to do good,
Why don't you think of someone order than yourself.
There's a good in you,
Let it show forth.

so is there any good left in you for the world?
Yes it there is.
The point is will you start doing that good?

When did you last give God praise?

When did you last give God praise?

When did you last raise your voice in true worship?

Not vain, controlled, forced,

The Truth and Spirit kind of worship.

Does God deserve your praise?

For His son,

Who faced death that you may boldly take on life

When you were soaked in sin and covered in guilt

Now you are redeemed, you dance on the stage of salvation

Yet you forget the one who made the show.

You no longer wake up in the morning with shouts of

All things bright and beautiful, all creatures great and small,

All things wise and wonderful,

The Lord God made them all.

You no longer receive your meals with a sense and content, care and the strings of that beautiful tune

Some have food but cannot eat

Some can eat but have no food

We have food and we can eat

Glory be to thee oh Lord.

Have you forgotten that you have been ordained for a life of praise and gratitude?

Have you forgotten that God broke your chains to loose your praise?

You remember that song Óh that men?

Oh that men would praise the Lord

Oh that men would praise the Lord

For His goodness and for His wonderful works

To the children of men, to the children of men

He has broken the gates of brass and cut the bars of iron asunder.

Oh how you have forgotten those days of pure consecration

When you rushed with excitement to the altar for a cleansing

When all life meant was a time with the most high

When the focus alone was heaven

When the desire was for the coming of Christ

Now you are tired of waiting

His praise has gone sour in your mouth

His worship is diluted with doubts

His purity baked in your guilt

Hiding his praise, Yet sipping on his goodness

Complaining of lack, yet breathing life

Complaining of stagnancy yet walking on two legs

Complaining of sad days yet with eyes wide open you behold the dawning of a new day.

God does everything good yet man sees everything bad.

You have forgotten the days when you sang

Everywhere He went, He was doing good,

Almighty Jesus, Healed the leper,

When cripple saw Him,

They started walking, Everywhere He went my God was doing good.

I’m not asking you to praise today,

I’m just asking you to think,

Oh man think.

Think of the reason,

The reason why you live,

The reason why you were called

The reason why you were created.

God can raise stones,

He can call trees,

He can summon the sun,

He can move the moon

Oh for his praise.

Think not oh man for a second

That you are His only source of praise,

Think not oh man

Start praising from a place of knowledge, not a place of right

If you were ordained for praise why then do you not praise?

There is someone asking now?

Why do we sing?

When we lift our voice to Jesus

What do we really mean?

Someone may be wondering

When we sing a song,

At times we may be crying

When nothing’s even wrong

I sing because I’m happy

I sing because I’m free,

His eyes is on the sparrow

That’s the reason why I sing.

Slaying or Straying?

I do not dress for a walk of shame,

I dress for a walk of glory.

I do not dress to oppress,

I dress to witness.

I do not dress to create an opening,

I dress to cover my privates.

I do not dress fit trash,

I dress to speak class.

I do not dress to be sexually appealing,

I dress to preach modesty.

I do not dress to make the thoughts of men stray,

I dress to present my body a living sacrifice to God.

I do not dress up to entice,

I dress up to inspire.

I am not dressing to fit in,

I dress up to stand out.

I do not dress to offend,

I dress to motivate.

I do not dress to follow trends,

I dress to set standards.

I sacrifice public trend for modesty,

I sacrifice nudity for simplicity,

I sacrifice trash for class,

I sacrifice oppressing for witnessing,

I am courageous enough not to conform to fashion nudity,

I am courageous enough not to conform to free shows,

Don’t get me wrong,

My Dressing doesn’t define me,

But my identity is revealed through my dressing.

And I know I can be stylish yet classy

I can be trendy yet covered,

I can be modest yet beautiful,

I can be simple yet stunning,

And I can definitely be fashionable yet godly.

My Identity is in Christ Jesus

My dressing is a loud witness for Him.

I don’t know what you are thinking when you say I slay. But I am definitely not doing the ‘mo pa won tan’ ‘kill them finish’ kind of slay. I’m doing the ‘dressed to glorify’ ’dressed to sacrifice’ kind of style.

Pardon me slayer! I didn’t mean to confuse you, but are you slaying or straying?